Prepare. Practice. Perfect. Learn to Kiss and Don't Blow It!
Even if you have never kissed, there is always a first time and once is enough to know how to do it.
Practicing Kissing In Your Imagination
Till the time you have a couple of kisses under your belt, practice the following steps in your mind. Imagine yourself issing a man and see it happening in your mind's eye so that when you really have to kiss, it will come naturally to you. Assume you are with a man, who is interested in you. Both of you are facing each other, while sitting.
Now that you have established lots of eye contact and touched each other often at every small excuse, you need to get ready to kiss him (make sure your breath is fresh).
Turn your face towards him and lean closer till your lips are almost meeting.
Keep watching him as you move closer, after all you don't want to have an accident bumping each other.
Look into his eyes just before you kiss him.Don't try to kiss straight on, or your noses will bump. Tilt your head, so that your noses just rub or not touch at all.
Tilt your head to the left, as this seems to come naturally.
Hopefully your partner will also tilt his head to the left, so that you are both tilting in opposite directions
Now look back at his mobile lips.
When parting your lips don't open your mouth wide. Part your lips as though you are going to take a drink of some water in a glass.
Close your eyes just as you kiss.
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted.
Press gently against his lips.
Your heads should be tilted so that your lips are angled across each other, not direct face to face.
Give him a small kiss and draw back.
Look into his eyes and carry on holding hands.
Go back for another kiss if you are both ready and excited
Play out this scenario, in your mind a couple of times and when the time comes, you will kiss like a pro.
Practicing Kissing With Props
To get used to the idea of how your lips will feel, when you actually kiss someone, use your hand.
Make a fist and turn your palm towards you.
Now raise the first two fingers after the thumb, in to the "peace" sign.
Don't spread your fingers in a deep"V", but keep them slightly parted.
Tilt your hand to the left side and pretend you have a set of makeshift lips.
The top finger is the upper lip and the bottom finger is the lower lip.
Now position your lips in such a fashion that your upper lip is nuzzled between your make believe lips and your lower lip is just below your make believe lower lip.
Basically, you have his pretend lower lip between yours and he has your upper lip between his lips.
I call it the interlocking lip lock or the basic lip kiss.
You can also practice kissing on.
The web of skin between your thumb and first finger.
The back of your hand.
By licking a lollipop.
Or eating an ice cream cone.
Just close your eyes and pretend, you are kissing your man. Imagine his hair, his eyes, the shape of his lips and how he'll kiss you ...let him come alive in your imagination and practice kissing with passion.
Practice Kissing By Moving Your Lips
Once you have got the basic interlock lip down pat, you can practice some other ways of moving your lips
Don't just kiss the lower lip. Switch between the top and the bottom lip.
Tilt your head more, so you can kiss even the ends of his mouth.
Stop to withdraw your lips and then gently lick the outline of one lip.
Suck in both his lips together.
Stop kissing and just rub your lips across his, from one end to the other.
If you want to explore his neck, don't stop kissing. Kiss your way down the chords of his throat or shoulder placing short kisses or giving long licks.
If he is enjoying it, he will tilt his head back to give you better access to his neck and shoulders and then crush you close when passion overwhelms him.