If you are totally stressed out, struggling to be someone you are not, you aren't going to succeed. Let it all go ... all the pretensions, all the desires to be something you are not.
Rule no 1, and your bedrock of success, is to be yourself.
If you think no one will like you, they won't. If you think you wouldn't be able to get man, you won't. On the other hand if you think you can get a man, though maybe not this one, than you will.
Instead of being all things to all men, just be your self ! That way you will attract someone who is compatible with who you are and you won't have to pretend to be someone you are not, just to keep him hanging around.
Maybe you aren't a party animal, or a quiet girl ... So! There are men out there who will like you for who you are, and remember no one ...
Absolutely no one will like you for who you pretend to be. So if you are an outgoing personality, or an introvert, mad over science or a book worm, relax there is a man for you and very soon you will find him.
Visualize going up to the man of your dreams and talking to him. Rid your mind of all the negative thoughts that you have about yourself. Don't be over anxious. Play it cool. Keep a poker face some of the time. Arouse his curiosity, entice him into wanting to know you thoroughly. Make him want you.
Don't be too desperate, ignore a little, flirt a little, smile a little, look deep into his eyes a little ... and eventually you will kiss a little.
Imagination and Creativity
Watch some erotic movies to get ideas on how to kiss the man of your dreams. Read books. Close your eyes and imagine yourself doing all that and more. When you tune into your sensual self, you will become a sensual person and that sensuality will be reflected in your eyes, (men just melt at sensuous coolly knowing eyes) and you will intuitively know how to kiss, when to kiss and where to kiss.
Be confident that your touch has the power to seduce a man. Look at your hands and think of the power in them. Be aware of yourself ... who you are and what you think. Stand up for your beliefs, be assertive and with that confidence will come the imagination to experiment and indulge in erotic kissing and more.
You will be the one who will know what every man wants and how to keep him wanting for more.
Keep your first few kisses short and sweet. Remember, teenage boys like to collect scalps too. So if you are looking for one kiss, it's okay
to go ahead and all out, but if you want him to be with you for longer than a day, stretch it out. Kiss him short and sweet and always leave him wanting more.
Don't satisfy him totally and you'll see that with just one look or a touch you will be able to arouse him. Once you have got him hooked well and proper, you can then experiment at will with your willing partner.
Try out all the tricks you have read about and then invent some of your own. You are not limited by anything other than the limits you impose on yourself.
So, set yourself free and discover a life of immense joy and eroticism.